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August 10, 2012; 5:00 am, Eko Local Time

The cock just crowed
The dew just slowed
Time just mellowed
The sun just woke
Realisation just stroke
Thoughts in my mind just rolled
Reality rudely woke
Put my mind in thinking mode
Ei, it is so true
Can’t deny again no more
The Omanhene goes home
To his ancestors join
From Odomankoma his passage procured
Ten days, and then seven
Processing took
Time just became due

The King goes home
We can do no more
His place not here
His abound so far

Asomdwehene
Nantie yie
Damirifa due
Due due ni amanihunu

For Sikaman that mourned
Our sensibility found
In sadness we gathered
Our senses hitherto shattered
Vituperations evaporated
Tintinnabulations abated
Punches airborne pulsated
Yet collectively we moderated
Found us our heart
Found us our soul
Found us our Sikamanness
Found us our true Bibininess
Found that though we speak
As are fruits from different trees
We share one root
We shared one y3funu
We all exited the womb
Of Ama Ghana!

WHAM!
Say it in Mugabeman
Say it not in Mugabeman
Trepidation ensues
Confusion emanates
WHAM!
Said it in Sikaman
Happened in Attakrom
Diawuoman rose up
Jerrykope united
Limanntanga acted
Acheampongmanso decided
Busiachi enacted
Kotokaman consolidated
Osagyefokrom shone the way
Yet again
Showed that the spirit
That made
The land of
Danquah
Akuffo
Akuffo-Addo
Afrifa
Ako-Adjei
Ofori-Atta
Obetsebi-Lamptey
The shining star of Abibiman
The land of
Yaa Asantewaa
Kwegyir-Aggrey
Prempeh
Preman-Ntow
Anokye
Adu-Boahene
Paa Grant
Annan
Ansah
Baako
Ankomah
Dumor
Atongo
Ahortovie
Tetteh
Mensah
Kofi
Effe
Nunekpeku
This land
Your land
My land
This immortal spirit
Of our ancestors
That lives and
Breathes in us
This collective
Together
Came
Up
Permeated
Every
Cloak
That divided us
And we found
It
A
Permeable
Screen

Mpanyinfuo bu b3 bi s3
Y3 su mpo a
Y3 gyae 3him
Though we cry
We pause to blow
Our nose
You cannot cry
And think

So permit me
To pause and think
To put my crying
On abeyance
Albeit for a second
And ask you
To consider

WHAM!

What Happened After Mills!

We showed that we
Can be one
In thought
In speech
In deed
In action

The King goes home today

And on Monday
Though we mourn on
We lift up the pieces
And we move on

Shall we move on
As we did before
The Black Tuesday?

Shall we move on
As though nothing touched us?

Opanyin Obama
Kasa

“So let us summon a new spirit of patriotism;
Of service and responsibility
where each of us resolves to pitch in
And work harder and
Look after not only ourselves,
But each other.
Let us remember that
We rise or fall as one nation;
As one people.
Let us resist the temptation
To fall back on the same
Partisanship and pettiness
And immaturity
that has poisoned our politics for so long.
As Lincoln said
‘We are not enemies but friends
Though passion may have strained
It must not break our bonds of affection.’”

Mo ne kasa Barack Obama

Nante yie
Asomdwehene
Nante yie Obenefuo Fiifi

You taught many in the classroom
Whilst you lived
In dying, you gave your ultimate lecture

Tweredeapon Kwame
Fa wo nsie yie

Damirifa due
Due
Due ni amanihunu

Fare thee well
President John Evans Fiifi Atta Mills

© Nana A Damoah, August 2012, Lagos, Nigeria

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My friend Kobby Parker shares his thoughts in response to my earlier article. Kobby is a banker and a writer.

 

Ghana Today
Recently, I was on a flight from Takoradi toAccra. The plane was full. I was the only chocolate-coloured man (I am not black) on the plane. The plane was full with cream-coloured (they are not white) people.
As the plane taxied and took off, I asked myself: What are they doing here? What do they want here? What have they seen that I haven’t seen?

 

I reasoned further: They are not here to work in factories. There is risk of malaria and robbery. They are safer in their country and yet they come in droves. In my own country, my own people cannot afford to use planes that fly within the country.
From the America’s, Europe and Asia they have come to harvest what God gave us and we only watch and wonder whilst they plunder.
Today, it is estimated by the Ghana Immigration Service and other government agencies that there are more than 300,000 Chinese inGhana. They have gone to the bushes in the hinterlands. They are digging out sacred rivers and forests, in search of gold. Three Chinese men I know make an average of $1million in gold sales DAILY! They attack local villagers for coming close to their illegal mining sites and the police do nothing.
The politician and the police do not blink. What can an individual do then?

Deut 28:33 – A nation whom you have not known shall eat the fruit of your land and the produce of your labour and you shall be only oppressed continually.

Ghana Today
I have taken note of a curious development in Ghanaian banking circles. A Ghanaian businessman cannot obtain financing from banks inGhana without collateral. If you want a loan for a factory, the bank would ask you to deposit the requested amount in cash as collateral or submit your house documents. If your house is not worth the amount you have requested, forget it. It then amazes me why Ghanaians are surprised there aren’t enough factories inGhana to employ our able bodied youth. But the story gets interesting.

Most foreigners doing business inGhanado not need collateral to obtain bank loans. Most banks, be they Ghanaian or foreign-owned, are more likely to avail a loan to a foreigner than a local.
Recently, a foreign-owned company has commissioned a $51 million flour processing factory inGhana. Many banks were over themselves to have a piece of the ‘financing pie’. only three banks won the race to give the company money – $17 million each. The only collateral is the factory itself and a piece of paper from the company’s head office inSingapore that is called a corporate guarantee.
If this is a workable model, then why don’t Banks inGhana finance factories to be owned by Ghanaians? Won’t those factories create more jobs for unemployed youth? And won’t the profit earned stay in the country to develop other sectors of the economy?


Deut. 28:43 – The alien who is among you shall rise higher and higher above you, and you shall come down lower and lower. He shall lend to you, but you shall not lend to him; he shall be the head, and you shall be the tail.

Ghana Today
Accra used to be safe, but not that safe anymore. Maybe it’s still relatively safer than elsewhere. But I would drive the shortest distance than walk and I would never carry anything resembling a laptop bag whilst walking. Lest I be struck with sudden fear. In spite of my fear of sudden fear, I have been mugged twice by my own country people at knife point. Twice!


Deut 28:66 – Your life shall hang in doubt before you; you shall fear day and night, and have no assurance of life.

Ghana Tomorrow
There is hope for the future says the Lord.
Is there anything more comforting than hope?

 

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27 June 2012

Pro Patria!

As I made my way to work this morning, my thoughts turned, as usual for this week in particular, toAfrica. I have been musing this week aboutGhanaand today I added the country I consider my second home –Nigeria.

I have been working here in Eko permanently for almost three months now. I am not new to Amalaman. Since I started working with Unilever after school in 2000, I have been visiting here for about fourteen times before moving here permanently. My first visit to Amalaman was in January 2001, and it was for a conference in Ogere. Interestingly, my first trip out ofLagosin April this year was toIbadanand we went by Ogere and right by the conference centre – nostalgic. In 2009, I stayed here for a full month.

I have been telling my colleagues at work, Mr O and Mrs B especially that when I read the papers, especially The Punch which is what I subscribe to at work, I find too many negative words being used, to much pessimism.

Just as an example, I have now picked, randomly, the Thursday June 14 2012 edition of The Punch. The words and phrases that jump at me: scandals, bribe, suspicion, rot, stinks, emergency, warns, recession. This is just the front page, I have not opened it yet. There is, however, one positive story – Man, 80, bags B.Sc in Sociology (that was so inspiring).

I ask my colleagues why.

When I come to work during the week and also move about during the weekend, I never regret being inNigeriaor working here. I love it. Challenges nevertheless.

Another argument I always have with my Nigerian friends – I tell them they have a romantic view ofGhana. Usually when I hear such statements as ‘Oh, it is not like this or that inGhana’, I challenge the speaker and ask ‘Have you ever been toGhana?’ Three times out of four, the person hasn’t been. It is not all that rosy in my homeland, we are all on this road to development, and have our challenges.

After my first degree and my statutory (second) National Service, I worked for five years in Ghanabefore going to the UKfor a year’s masters program. This was between September 2005 and September 2006. I submitted my dissertation on the 15 September, stayed for two weeks to help with the Welcome program for International Students and to tidy up a few issues and I was back in Ghana on the 2nd October 2006. I had resigned from Unilever before going for my studies and as at the time I returned, there was no firm offer from Unilever to take me back. A Ghanaian friend based in theUK asked me why I was returning toGhana, and why I didn’t like it in theUK. As a typical Ghanaian, I answered him with a question, querying him in return why he was in theUK and why he didn’t like it inGhana. I will state my reasons for returning home so soon, later in this piece but before that, allow me to share a statement a senior colleague made to me.

I had got a Chevening scholarship to study atNottinghamUniversity. As I considered my options, I went to consult with Adlai Opoku-Boamah, a senior manager at Unilever who had just recently returned from theUKon a similar scholarship. His advice was simple: “Nana, if you want to be a big man, come back home.”

I saw the development in theUK, I have seen the development inSouth Africaand since returning from my studies, I have been to other countries where the level of advancement is far above what transpires inGhanaand other African countries. I saw how hard people, including many Africans, are working in theUKto make that country prosper and become what it is. And I asked myself, Why sweat somewhere else?

Why sweat my youthful years away building someone’s village and not mine? Why put my shoulders to a wheel that turns another economy whilst the one that has my umbilical cord tied to it travels south? And in returning toGhana, I was returning toAfrica, to the continent that needs the resources to grow.

We berate the whites for slavery and argue that the slave trade took away all our energetic and productive young men and women. Are we not practising a voluntary trade today?

One of the issues that tickle in the wrong places is when my brothers and sisters living abroad visit home for a week and lament about everything and see nothing worthwhile to commend. Who should stay behind and build?

I was in school with a number of Nigerians, who stayed back. Try telling them to come back home to help, and it will be like selling amala to a Chinese man. How else canNigeriagrow if all the top brains are going out for studies and not returning? How canAfricaimprove if we don’t want to stay, sweat and swim against the tide of under-development and turn our economies around?

 

Who is to give the hope back? Who is to change the language we use? Who is to enervate us, inspire us, bring us the va-va-voom? It will not be the politicians, I can guarantee you. It will be us, the ordinary citizens.

Why sweat elsewhere when I can sweat on the continent, and stay in a betterGhana, a betterNigeria, a betterAfrica?

Why sweat elsewhere?

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Book: Tales from Different Tails
Author: Nana Awere Damoah
Pages: 145
Publishers: Multipixel
Reviewer: Caroline Boateng

A BALANCED diet of witticism, proverbs and narrations, all interwoven into a tight delightful story.

This is what Tales from Different Tails by Nana Awere Damoah affords the reader.

This fresh addition to Ghanaian literary works is classic in that Nana Damoah manages to hold his readers’ attention by engagingly re-telling the story of our daily experiences.

The experiences of being cheated by a bosom ‘Kweku Ananse’ (a crafty man), the experiences of the first taste of independence and love in second cycle institutions, the first real state of confusion at heart that comes with the experience of love, relieved by Akua, one of the characters.

Tales from Different Tails also satisfies the human urge for revenge. The reader will experience the satisfaction with the downfall of Kweku Ananse, who won the heart of his friend’s beautiful fiancée by craft, but then had to lose her when his machinations were exposed.

However, the subtle theme of restoration, when all seems lost and an individual has even given up, is interwoven in a story of pain of Randy, a.k.a. Zagidibogidi, hardened by circumstances of life and subsequently softened the restoration of the Saviour, Jesus.

The different tails tell the stories of the teeming youth in the streets of cities, lives like in difficulty, destitution and despair of the future, with Kojo Nkrabeah representing all those who, due to circumstances, find themselves living on the streets of Accra and in slums.

Nana Awere Damoah’s style as a writer is easy. He envelopes the reader with his proverbs and finishes up his art with memorable witticism that leaves the reader deep in thought of the wisdom of it all.

For instance, most readers, particularly women, would agree and smile when they read his words, “A man thinks he chases a woman, to win her; but a careful observer of the oldest game in life knows that a man chases a woman until she catches him.”

Nana Awere Damoah treats social ills in a fast-paced, dramatic, almost hilarious, but poignant manner.

Flirtatious married women and betrayed wounded husbands who become enraged beasts, excursions through the city on local commercial vehicles (“trotros”) and the attendant “wahala” (troubles) such as breakdowns and discomfort from “big Markola mummies” and mates who are experts in what the author terms “Kweku Ananse mathematics,” or “substitution by shifting around,” that is, ripping off passengers by charging exorbitant fares, or confusing them with change on their fares, are some of the different tales that will engage readers.

In all the different tails, the tales of life’s principles are told.

Tales that assure readers that life has a way of working out its own complexities in the end, that evil does not pay, that love conquers all and that even when one has compromised his or her life with evil, there is restoration.

Nana Awere Damoah’s book is a good read and recommended for all readers.

It is a handy pocket book to be pulled out easily and enjoyed everywhere as one waits for an appointment. It is for the youth, grown-ups, the light-hearted and those wanting some relaxation from an intense day.

It is available in all leading bookshops in the country or can be obtained by contacting the author at ndamoah@yahoo.co.uk

Source: The Mirror (http://www.graphic.com.gh/mirror/index.php), Saturday June 16 2012

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My colleague Ronke Alabi shared this with me at close of day today, and I couldn’t keep it to myself. Enjoy!

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1)  And it came to pass after these things, on the first day of the first month of the twelfth year after the second millennium, that king Jona son of Bele announced to the people saying; there is no money left in the royal treasury, and the future of the kingdom is in great danger.

2) Therefore, a measure of oil shall no longer sell for three scores of silver and seven, but shall now be seven scores of silver and one. But the people grumbled aloud, and said unto another, what shall it profit our king to gain all these oil money and lose his throne?

3) For it is appointed unto him to reign but once, and after this prison, for many are the atrocities which he has committed.

4)  So they said unto the king, eat thou thy food in peace in the palace, and surround thou thyself with thine women, only touch not our oil price and do thy people no harm.

5) But the king would not listen, and said unto himself, I know my people, they shall only grumble for a while and soon they shall forget.

6) But the people would not forget, for the burden was too much for them to bear, and they said; now unto him that is able to increase the price of oil exceeding abundantly above all that his people can bear or think, according to the greed which worketh in him;

7) Unto him be curses in the streets by the masses throughout all ages, protests without end.

So they took to the streets and gave the land no peace, and there was no going out or coming in throughout the kingdom for two weeks, and the king feared greatly and said to himself, surely these people shall overturn me if I answer them not.

9) So he called the head of the labourers unto the palace, and gave him bags of gold, that he mayest turn off the wrath of the people against the king.

10) So the king assembled the people and said unto them; a measure of oil shall no longer be seven scores of silver and one, but shall now be four scores of silver, one dozen and five, to this your leaders have agreed. Praise me now therefore for I am a benevolent king.

11) And after all these, the Loudspeaker of the House of People said, let us inquire into the king’s claim that there be no money in the royal treasury. So they appointed Farcrook, son of Lawal.

12) And said unto him, gather ye now all the oil sellers, that we may know who stole from the kingdom. This did him with diligence, and came back with his report saying

13) Thieves abound in the land, and so have the oil sellers stole from the people, and gave them not oil, this they did with the help of Aliyaro the king’s mistress; and the amount he mentioned was unheard of in the land.

14) When the people heard this, they were dismayed, and sorrow gripped their hearts.

15) But the oil sellers went in unto the king in his chamber, and said; rememberest thou O king that the what we stole did we make available to thy campaign, and by thus did we make you king.

16) If thou deliver us unto the people that they may punish us, we will hold not our tongue to tell the people that thou art one of us.

17) And they said unto him, how else shall we destroy the message if not to destroy the messenger? Let us therefore implicate Farcrook the son of Lawal in this matter.

18) So they sent a certain rich man from the West by the name Otedollar, and he took Farcrook into his house and gave him some money, that he may alter the report which he had set before the people.

19) And it was that Otedollar went before an assembly of the people and said unto them, trust ye this man who said we stole from the treasury? Surely he is one of us, for he came unto me in the middle of the night, and he left with his pockets full of money.

20) And the people where amazed, and their hearts bled, for Farcrook was a man in whom they had put their trust.

21) So Farcrook arose, and said; Otedollar is my briber, I did not request. He maketh me to sit down in his Maitama house; he leadeth me beside the chilled champagne.

22) He exploited my greed; he leadeth me in the path of marked dollars for subsidy’s sake.

23) Yea, even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of EFCC, I will fear no arrest: for bribes are with me; my loots and my kickbacks they comfort me.

24) Thou preparest the dollars before me, in the presence of the SSS: thou anointest my mouth with wine; my pocket runneth over.

25) Surely the shame and reproach shall follow me all the days of my life, but I will dwell in the house of PDP forever and ever.

26) And the people wept, but there was no one to console them.

 Source: http://www.omojuwa.com/2012/the-gospel-according-to-saint-farouk

Ogunyemi Bukola

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27 May 2012

I have already written about my vow never to drive in Eko. That intention actually goes against one of my cardinal principles: never to say never. My colleague Mrs B had already told me I would be driving in Eko before the year is out, to which I giggled. No way, I told her.

The Akans say that when it gets to the crunch, the white man, the Obroni, speaks Twi. My former Unilever colleague Emmanuel had invited me to a lunch in his house with our former boss and other colleagues, and his house is at Ikoyi. Well, not too far from where I am living presently. Nasiru doesn’t work on Sundays. So my options are actually two: to drive myself or to go in a cab. Forget an okada!

When we got married in June 2002, I had an Opel Vectra, my first car. I loved that car; I felt it was a Mercedes. I remember sending a mail to my classmates from Tech via our class mailing list to inform them about the car. From memory I recollect that I thought the steering was power-steering. By the blessedness of technology and my archives, I have been able to retrieve that mail:

From: Nana Damoah

Sent: Tuesday, January 22, 2002 7:54 AM

To: Classmates

Subject: Declaration

Anuanom,

God has been good to me for all these years. This year has begun on a good note for me. By His grace, I now drive a 1992 Opel Vectra 1600cc engine. I am still getting used to it, and enjoying it with my wife-to-be. Features include 15″ alloy wheels, Power front windows, Power mirrors, Central locking, and nice steering (almost power, though I am not certain yet).

So, praise God with me.

Another information which is already in the public domain is that I am planning to marry on 15th June this year. I am giving you all very very advance notice, because you are special.

God bless, and keep the Spirit. More blessings are on the way for all of us.

HETCB

 I am laughing so hard at the mail, 10 years down the line. My signature then was a fleeting nickname my classmates had given me: His Excellency The Chilling Brother.

Vivian had learnt how to drive but wasn’t really practising. I was in the Quality Assurance Department of Unilever then and use to travel on trade visits every quarter, going away for a week at a time, covering the entire nation each year, visiting the key distributors and the markets to assess quality in the trade. When I left, the car was packed in the garage and Vivian who was then working in Accra (we lived at Lashibi) walked from our home in Community 18 to the junction, and had to pick series of public transport (taxi and trotro) to get to work. The first day of that week, she really had it in traffic and got home late. On her way home, she decided that it made no sense to have a car at home and be struggling to get a car to and from work! That evening, she cleaned the car and the early on Tuesday, she set off to work, very early so she wouldn’t encounter much traffic. By the Friday when I returned from my trek, my wife had become an expert driver.

This morning, I decided to use the same approach. Sunday is not noted for heavy traffic. So though the lunch invitation is for around 1pm, I drove out to find the location, and realised how much I miss driving!

Tentative first attempt. I will drive to and from Emmanuel’s house again this afternoon. Let’s see how quickly Mrs B’s prediction comes to pass.

Eish, Eko o ni ba je!  

Ah, o baje ti!

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The Writer

Two score, a decade and half ago, Dr Kwame Nkrumah declared our independence as a nation with a shared mission to achieve a vision yet to be fully unveiled gradually. That day of the declaration was a dream lived with opened eyes by those who fought for it and the rest who gave it the deserving celebratory honour. It was the sixth day of March in the year 1957.

 

Through my childhood days to this day of informed awareness, the day of declaration have been marked with marching ceremonies by schools, security services and public servants witnessed by political leaders and diplomatic corps. However, the relevance of our independence is slowly paling into insignificance. It has been reduced to a memorial ceremony instead of a moment of reflection and rethinking.

 

How independent are we to still accord this day its essence? We must rethink our understanding of an independence day as a nation, society, family, leaders and individual citizens of Ghana. Until that is done, we cannot come close to achieving the ultimate essence of the day of declaration. We must examine our minds and appreciate the reasons why we celebrate this august day.

 

As a nation, we have traded enough of our values and principles for present selfish gains and pride. Nothing holds us together strong enough anymore than the names we bear as citizens born within this geographical space called Ghana. We, most often, brandish our tribal differences to spite each other at the detriment of finding our national identity, which Dr Kwame Nkrumah declared and initiated. We don’t seem to have a clearly defined Ghanaian personality with uncompromising set of values, principles and honour worth transferring to the next generation.

 

We have locked ourselves within the enticing comforts of the present and neglect to pay the price for a better common future for our children’s children to emulate. Ghana is being spoon-fed on self-interested party manifestoes which serve the interests of the party in power. Everything progress and better-life are hijacked and shared by the party in government leaving the masses to nurse their poverty with fading optimisms. The poor are left with only two options: to die or remain slaves of poverty. The country is terminally subjected to these political experiments every four years.

 

How can we be endowed with so much natural resources and growing human resource base but still battle poverty like old warriors? From what we eat, breath in, walk on, drink, farm, fish, rear, mine to what we wear are in abundance yet we do not know how to live above poverty. This is the time we deliberate on what God has given us freely and how we can transform them to make our lives better and more comfortable. Unfortunately, we have become aid-junkies, government-in-government-out. We trade our resources for peanuts and forget about posterity.

 

As a society, we tend to care for all that are us and ours. We have become more individualistic and materialistic. Our communal social structure which provided that ecosystem of support to grow each individual member to build the whole society has crumbled. We have walled ourselves out of touch of what used to be social and common in our society. Nobody cares for another enough. Families raise their children, as best and independently as they can, but forget that their children will not marry themselves. A better future for their children should therefore be conditioned on ensuring a better one for the neighbour’s children too.

 

I am very sure that crime and vices will be well-managed to their harmless minimums if we revive and rekindle that spirit of communal interest and social interdependence. As the saying goes, “it takes a village to raise a child”, we must enforce our independence by creating a society which caters for each member as life-support element of the whole. The rich should help the poor while the poor also serve the rich. Society must be a deliberate mix of varying social classes and characters which must revolve and evolve to create better living conditions and experiences. 

 

Leadership has become a rare commodity we need to achieve a holistic development agenda which will be of immense benefit to all; not just a select few. The absence of leadership is obvious in the grave indiscipline, lawlessness and apathy in Ghana. We have over-managed our conditions because we under-led them. More money is spent correcting the consequences of our negligence, indiscipline and lawlessness every year instead of channelling that resource into building something beneficial. 

 

Wrong leadership most often have very wrong following. It is picture perfect in our daily discourses and interactions. We have believed the myth of thinking only political heads are leaders. Very few people have to come to terms with the fact that we are to lead everywhere we are given the opportunity to serve. Sadly, most of us ride on the false belief of always blaming political leaders every time and forget to find our path to also lead. Individual leadership leads to group leadership. Until we can personally lead our lives and whatever has been assigned to us, we cannot effectively lead others. Many citizens have become unconcerned about whatever is happening. Leadership is accorded little or no faith at all because of repeated failed promises. 

 

Nonetheless, we can change our motherland one patriotic act by a good citizen at a time. We must bring back the days of community and social engagement. We must esteem the interest of our country above our personal ones. We must not live for the comforts of the present and meet the future with gnashing of teeth. Our educational system must churn out better leaders than just best-grade graduates. We must arise and uphold the good name of Ghana.

It’s time to rethink our independence.

 

Maximus Ametorgoh

Twitter: @maxihere

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Nana Awere Damoah‘s book is full of short stories you wont forget years after reading. The kind that makes you giggle to yourself anytime you remember a punch line from its humor-filled pages.

For someone who stayed in an out-of-campus apartment throughout my years in the university, Tales from Different Tails vividly captures all the extra-curricular activities I missed on campus. I’m definitely going for a re-read, something I hardly do.

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Akua

Tina was a timid girl, the sort whose timidity enhanced her looks. She looked stressed and it was clear she needed a listening ear. As a leader in our hall fellowship, I was an appropriate downloading site for her worries, one to offer the occasional comfort and advice. My presence in the room at that moment was in response to a note she had left for me: could she talk to me, please, urgently? She had been there three times already, without luck since I kept a busy schedule and hardly studied in my room. She didn’t keep me waiting, and appeared on schedule, taut and ready to explode. I wished to put her at ease, but all I did seemed inconsequential; all she wanted was to get the issue off her chest. I braced myself for what she had to say. After a few minutes of hesitation, during which I sat looking at her, encouraging her in silence, she blurted:

“It’s the boys! They are pestering me so, and I just can’t cope!”

It was about three weeks into the new academic year and the school was under the siege of the phenomenon known as the “October Rush”. A new academic year brought many changes, but most significantly, it brought fresh female students who were termed, in campus speak, as New Stock. The continuing (or senior) female students had various tags too. Second year ladies were Reduced to Clear, and the third/final year students belonged to the Buy one, Get one free category.

 

Campus wisdom held that the beginning of the first semester was generally the best time to shop for desirable ladies, freshers in this instance, before they got acclimatized. I looked knowingly at my guest; the Rush was on, evidently.

 

“Sister Akua, you see, I am confused already. Is it a sin to be fresh and beautiful in this university?” she lamented.

Fresh? Beautiful? Eish! Wasn’t she a tad too confident of her looks?  Or was it arrogance? But the words that came out of my mouth gave no hint of my thoughts.  “Of course not. But take heart and tell me exactly what is getting you so worked up.”

 

Nothing could have prepared the poor girl for such an experience. In the maze of activities crowded into the first month of the academic year, many a first year student became perplexed. Orientation programs, registration procedures, accommodation search, getting used to new lecture schedules, learning to find one’s way about the large campus and preparing for matriculation – it was all unnerving for a fresher.

 

“Sister Akua, take this Archito guy. He is in the second year and inKatanga. I met him on the STC bus when I was coming to Kumasi and we struck a good conversation. Now he’s taken to visiting my room every other day. He is cool, handsome, and speaks good English. He’s already been of immense help and has devoted a lot of his time showing me around campus. My room-mates say he is smooth and I shouldn’t lose guard. He has already proposed and says he is coming to visit this weekend for his answer. I mean he was my first friend here on campus, but I’m not sure I’m ready for anything deeper at this point.”

 

It was a Thursday evening and I had a scheduled a discussion with my room-mate Adwoa. She dropped in, saw how intense our conversation was, and merely changed her attire.  I signalled that I would be following her to the Games Room as soon as I was done. The fresher looked at me with sad eyes before continuing.

 

“Then there is this guy I met at Paa Joe during the joint prayer meeting the Student Chaplaincy Council organized in the first week. He showed up to accompany me to the program every evening and has been visiting me regularly ever since.  He hasn’t said anything  yet but, sister, actions speak louder than words. He is always sharing scripture with me and I learn he is a powerful Christian brother. Well, I respect him for his life and brotherly affection, but I can sense he wants more. He becomes visibly uncomfortable whenever he comes across me talking with other guys and sulks the rest of the day.”

 

Inte Gorang

Inte Gorang stood in front of the mirror, putting finishing touches to his make-up. He turned this way and that way, brought his palm close to his mouth, fingers pointing upwards and exhaled through his mouth to smell his breath. Yes, the mint breath freshener was working perfectly.  His shirt was well-starched and ironed, the edges razor-sharp, the texture almost brittle. His hair shone from the Sportin’ Waves cream he had judiciously applied. Yellow, the shoe shine boy, had ensured that one could see his image looking up from the flat top of Inte Gorang’s shoes. A few sprays of his designer perfume used only for the most important occasions, and Joe Pabitey was ready for the evening’s visit to Africa Hall.

 

Joe Pabitey. Few people called him by his real name. His nickname Inte Gorang was adulterated from John Garang, the Sudanese rebel leader.  His friends teased, that Joe Pabitey had been fighting for years, four years actually, to get an inte, a girlfriend on campus. Such persistence was both admired and jeered, and every time he approached the Porter’s Lodge immaculately dressed, he was sure to receive applause and sometimes, blessings, from his Katanga Hall colleagues. A few times, even as he turned up the hill towards the Great Hall, the chorus of a song composed for him by his hall mates followed in his wake…

Ma ensi wo yie

Inte Gorang eeei

Inte rebel leader eei

Fa nkunim die bra nne!

to wit, “May it go well with you, Inte Gorang, Inte rebel leader, bring victory back today!”

 

Now in his final year, Gorang was bent on avoiding the proverbial four-zero, the term used to describe students who completed their four year degree courses without getting hitched, without grabbing. Along the way he had become a veteran of the October Rush. And each year, after failing to win a province, he had returned doggedly to the drawing board to re-strategize. His advances were not limited to the freshers though. It was just that having failed to succeed in the past three years in all the year groups, he had decided to really focus on freshers this final year. It was his last battle, going for the kill, do or die, be victorious or die trying!

 

In furtherance of this strategy, he had returned to campus two clear weeks before re-opening and befriended all the porters in the female and mixed halls. With heavy tipping, almost amounting to bribing, he had secured their tacit agreement to note down all the nice girls and their room numbers, so he wouldn’t have to waste doing reconnaissance.  By the time school re-opened and the freshers started arriving for the orientation program, he had been on theAccraroute more than four times, journeying back toKumasion the STC buses, to get acquainted with some of the ladies at the bus terminals. With such rich experience, he could pick out the freshers with ease – their large suitcases, parents dropping them off and anxious at their departure, eager conversations on mobile phones, and more private information obtained from discrete eavesdropping.

 

He was extra helpful to them and once they got to Tech junction, he ensured that he was visibly available to get them taxis to campus, a coincidental good Samaritan to the freshers – all part of the warlord’s battle plan.

 

Bazook

It was convenient for him to be a resident of the Independence Hall. The hall’s proximity to the school’s stadium, (popularly known as Paa Joe), suited him well for he loved to pray in the open expanse. Brother Bazook was very prayerful, an ardent Christian who spent at least two hours each day interceding for souls and his nation, his foremost prayer topics. He earned his nickname when he acted in a play at church. In that drama, he role-played what he loved doing in real life: praying. In one of the scenes, he led a group of ogyacious or zealous Christians in prayer and called on them to “shoot the devil” with spiritual intercontinental ballistic and other long-range missiles. That was in the years just after the first Gulf War. As the leader of that counter-terrorist army of Jesus, he naturally employed the bazooka and thus his nickname Bazook.

 

He was in the third year and a relationship with ladies was way out of his mind. He felt he was too spiritual for that carnal indulgence. Brother Bazook was known to have exorcised the demon of carnality from another brother when the latter simply asked him for bread, rebuking him: “When souls are perishing, you are thinking of bread!”

 

During the first week of his third year, Bazook had just spent two hours at Paa Joe, praying in tongues and interceding for souls. He felt really fulfilled; satisfied he had done his Christian duty, as he rounded up his prayers around 8.30 pm. As he climbed up the stairs to cross the street and take the footpath through the Annex Block, he espied a guy sitting by the security box. He walked on, until he heard the guy walking behind him, calling his attention before striding up to catch up with him.

 

“Brother, God bless you for your prayers. May I ask what you were praying about?”

 

Bazook smiled at the stranger, wondering: “Perhaps he wants to tap into my passion for souls?”

“Well, I was interceding for souls this evening.”

The stranger responded, “Brother, the Spirit intercedes for us with groans we cannot understand, and He knows our real heart’s desires. I can interpret tongues and all I heard you say for two hours I have been here at Paa Joe was ‘Lord, give me a wife!’ That is the true desire of your heart, even though you may try not to listen to that inner voice.”   Just as he appeared the stranger said a quick goodnight and disappeared into the night in the opposite direction.

 

Bazook spent that night reflecting deeply. Indeed, he had begun to think about relationships lately, much as he tried to push it out of his mind. Perhaps, God had used the stranger to tell him it was OK to have such thoughts, they may not be carnal after all? Perhaps he wasn’t supposed to be a Paul? A spiritual Peter was also in the Bible.

 

As he reflected on these, it hit him that it was October.  The Rush.  Yes, there is, The Rush!

 

Patty

The length of the queue behind your door is a reflection of your popularity as a fresh girl during October Rush, she had been told. She knew she was beautiful. That fact had been forcefully appreciated whilst she was in Wesley Girls, inCapeCoast. During the InterCo (inter colleges) competitions, she had the most enquiries from the boys from Kwabotwe, Adisco and Augusco, much to the chagrin of her friends, who tried very hard to hide their envy. It got to a point where she had to play pranks on those boys to keep them off. She always recalled one particular incident with mirth.

 

The guy, from Kwabotwe, had pestered her the entire duration of one competition, for two days. From all indications, he was not used to being bounced by girls, one of those boys who felt every girl should melt at the mention of his name like Blue Band margarine under the onslaught of a hot knife. He just wouldn’t take “No” for an answer. And by then, she, Patty Sutherland-Graves, had learnt that for such boys only humiliation would teach them that even though all heads may look the same, the thoughts in them differ.

 

On the second day, she grudgingly acquiesced and gave him her name; he wanted to visit her at school. She told him she was called Pat Ricia and they agreed for him to visit – two weeks later, on the girls’ visiting day.

 

On the appointed day, Alan Quartey – for that was the guy’s name, she could never forget it – duly turned up and asked for Miss Pat Ricia. By prior arrangement, the request filtered to Patty’s friends who took Alan to the Assembly Hall and gave him a seat at the center of the main stage, with the promise of informing Miss Ricia of his arrival. Back in the dormitory, Patty and her friends were rolling across the floor in laughter, completely taken up by the hilarity of it! The guy was clearly a toke – a dimwit, to come asking after a Pat Ricia! Her friends took turns passing by the Hall, ostensibly to search for a missing item or to look for a friend, the main purpose being to have a look at the latest toke[1] to visit their campus.

 

 

After about two hours of waiting in vain for Miss Ricia to appear, Alan Quartey got the message and left, with his tail between his legs

 

Patty was a veteran at playing love games and had arrived on campus for her first year well aware of the October Rush and eager to partake. Clearly, she would not be on the receiving end.

 

Akua

 

We were sitting on the lower bunk of the bed. I got up and went to the fridge to pick two bottles of Fanta, opened both and gave one to Tina. I insisted when she refused the drink. I had been out studying the whole day and needed to boost my sugar level; perhaps I needed the drink more than she but it wouldn’t do any harm for her to relax a bit more.

“What you are experiencing is called the October Rush, it is seasonal and it will pass. Tina, the question to ask is: Are you ready for any relationship at this time in your life?”

“No, not really.”

“But you do appreciate that you cannot fend off young men forever, and that you will have to make a decision one day, don’t you?”

“Oh yes, I do. It is just that now with all of them coming towards me at the same time, I feel confused, like a pollen-laden flower in the land of a thousand bees!”

“Yeah, that’s right and we all experienced it. The important thing is to ascertain whether any of these guys – and there will be more, I can assure you – is serious and will still be around after the Rush. Some of the guys see it as a game, some are also serious. Some of the guys come your way accidentally, others encounter you by plan. We will have to see how it goes. On the other hand, there are some girls who also take advantage of guys during the Rush and even after.

“One of such girls was my room-mate in first year, Christabel. If ever there was a female player, she was one. Christy could wind the hearts of men like a Bonwire kente master weaver! Her tongue was sweeter than the honeycombs ofBabylonand her tales were more intricate than those of legendary Kwaku Ananse. All the guys who came proposing to her were accepted, none of them suspected they had rivals, and each of them thought he was the only one on the throne of her heart. Her admirers were not only students; lecturers, businessmen and teaching assistants had their names in her catalogue. She often said you needed some for study support, some to pay your bills, some to fund your shopping, and some just for going out to functions with. So she grouped her love-struck or highly-infatutaed admirers into relevant categories of need.  There was one who took care of her educational needs only.  Another existed in her life just to provide finance.  Other took care of “tourism” needs and public affairs. She even had a guy whose main use was ironing! I always pitied that guy.

“Christabel would chat with him deep into the night, usually on Sunday, and then around midnight, she would make an attempt to touch her mound of dresses to be ironed for the week. This guy would immediately get up and insist on ironing! Christabel would smile sweetly, call him a darling and, a few minutes later, go to sleep, whilst the poor guy continued the ironing. He would finish at dawn, let himself out of the room and be back for the same routine the next week. Oh what love could push some men to do!

“One day, when he was almost done with the ironing, it started raining heavily. It was around 2 a.m. Christabel looked outside and decided that seeing how heavy the rain was, the guy should sleep in our room, and go to his hall early in the morning. The guy stepped out – we thought he was going to the gents, ok, ladies in this case. Twenty minutes later, there he was all wet, clutching a large cloth in his hands. He had rushed to his hall to pick up his sleeping cloth! It just confirmed my belief that he had a few wires incorrectly connected upstairs!”

 

“Room five-eight! Room five-eight!”

 

That was my room-mate, Adwoa, calling from the P-Lodge. I stepped out of the room and looked down from the rails. There was a guy standing with her, who I recognized immediately as Brother Bazook.

“Roomie, Bra Bazook here is looking for Tina, and I told him she was with you.”

 

Tina? Was Bazook one of the contenders for the young girl’s heart?

“Ei, Bra Bazook, so if it wasn’t for Tina, you wouldn’t have even asked of me, eh?”

“Sister Akua, it is not like that oh, just that mankind has been spending more time on souls, interceding and following up. I have an urgent message to deliver to the daughter of God, Tina.”

“OK, she will be down with you soon, or you want to come up here to see her?”

 

Tina had by now joined me on the corridor and indicated that he should wait for her at the P-Lodge, and we both returned to my room.

“Do you know Brother Bazook?” I asked Tina. She nodded.

“He is the “Chrife” or Christian Fellowship brother I told you about. I like him as a brother-in-Christ, but nothing more. If he should propose today, I will reject him, but how does one bounce such a brother without hurting his feelings? I can tell his affection is genuine and he is passionate, and I am certain he doesn’t go around proposing to lots of ladies…I could even be the first.”

 

At this point, I had to decide whether to follow my head or my heart. I will tell you why. I knew Brother Bazook well and always secretly admired him. Indeed, my room-mate was the first person who noted how my face lit up anytime he visited us in our room, and how many times I mentioned him in our conversations. Adwoa once challenged that she believed I was falling in love with Brother Bazook. I rebuked her, saying that I was just appreciating his spirituality and love for the Lord’s work. Upon reflection, however, I had at least admitted in my heart – yes, I felt more than sisterly affection towards Bazook. He had been a friend for three years, but these mushy feelings had begun to be acknowledged just about a year ago. The problem was that Bazook seemed to “see girls as trees”, as Adwoa usually said. On the other hand, how does a Christian girl go about letting a brother know that she loved him and was just waiting for him to pop the question, without appearing like a bone going after the dog?

 

Tina’s fond words about Bazook therefore hit me, making me momentarily lose my concentration.

 

“Yes…yes, er what did you say? Oh yes, I know Bazook as someone who rarely expresses interest in girls. If he is developing some affection towards you, he must be serious then. Perhaps he even has a prophecy to that effect. Go on, go and talk to him.”

 

Inte Gorang

Gorang typically got to Africa Hall just after 9pm. Being an all-female hall of residence meant Africa Hall attracted a good amount of visits from men with a mission.  As experienced as he was, he knew that most of the guys rarely visited girls after 9pm. The period between 9pm and midnight was usually reserved for those closest to the girls – boyfriends, relatives, girlfriends. Where boyfriends were concerned, it was called owner’s time. So for the brave, that period was free and if you were lucky to be admitted and no one was with your object of interest, you had monopoly time to make your point and pitch.

 

Gorang was visiting two girls this time. Patty and Tina: one a tough nut and the other generally easy, by his analysis. The tactic was to spend more time on the tougher subject and then finish off with the easier target.

 

Gorang climbed the stairs up to the fifth floor and stopped to lean on the railing, to catch his breath. The lifts had never worked in the four years he had been on campus. Both the hunter and the hunted suffer almost equally, he thought, as he continued his walk up to the eighth floor. When he turned left towards Room 808, and saw six guys leaning on the railings on the eighth floor, he briefly wondered whether they were going up to the rooftop, what for he couldn’t fathom. Perhaps a prayer meeting? As he passed behind them and drew closer to the door of Room 808 to knock, he felt a gentle tap on his shoulder.

 

“Are you going there to see anyone?”

 

He turned to see the face of one of the guys he had passed, waiting on the corridor.

 

“Yes, I am here to see Patty, she is in Room 808.”

“Then please join the queue, we are all here to see her.”

 

“Come in please.”

Patty was waiting. That was two hours later, but Gorang knew it was part of the game. With patience, one could kill an ant, dissect it and take out its heart, he soliloquized, as he opened the door and entered the room, taking his turn in the bidding arena.

 

Bazook

“When the Bible talks about offering yourself as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable, it includes even your choices. Make sure that what you choose does not become a scar on you and a hindrance to your Christian living,” Bazook exhorted Tina.

 

Tina was both shy and afraid of Brother Bazook at the beginning of their friendship, but with the passage of time, she was learning to relax in his presence. He, in turn, was increasingly loosening up enough to speak contemporary biblical English, instead of the King James version he utilized during the first week she met him. Tina remembered with mirth how he used to intersperse his speech with “Thou knowest”, instead of “You know”. They were standing under the trees that bordered the street leading to Africa Hall and, as usual, Bazook was sharing some nuggets, as he called them, from his Bible reading that day.

 

Tina’s earlier discussion with Sister Akua had been helpful, and whilst descending the stairs to the P-Lodge to meet Bazook, she had decided to take matters in her own hands and stop acting docile. She had a right to decide who stressed her out, and who she wanted to get close to her. She recalled Sister Akua’s words that the decision was hers to make one day. She decided that day would not be in her first semester.

 

“Brother Bazook, can I ask you a question?”

“Of course, Tina.”

“You see, a number of boys have been showing affection for me in a nice way, during these past few weeks on campus…”

 “Ei, I hope I am not counted in that list o!” Bazook burst out laughing.

Shyly, “Well, to be truthful, you are!”

 

Bazook continued laughing.

 

“Ok, Ok,” Tina struggled to get him to concentrate, “now back to my question. How can one ascertain that the love a man professes is genuine? If you love a girl, how do you show it, Bazook? Have you ever loved a girl? Can you fall in love within a couple of weeks and be clear that you want to have a life-long commitment?”

Ebei, Tina, why? You want to set a GCE A-Level question or what?” This triggered another round of laughter, with Bazook clutching his stomach.

“Well, let’s take it one at a time then, Tina. Yes, I have loved a girl, and still love her. And, no, even though I have shown you great affection during these few weeks, my motives are purely sisterly, nothing else.”

“I see.”

“Indeed, first advice and this was given to girls by our Scripture Union patron: never assume a boy’s love. Let it be expressed first.”

“But what if it is quite clear from the boy’s actions that he is just waiting for the right time to propose, Bazook? What if it is obvious from the amount of time he spends on you, the number of notes he sends you, the little gifts he sometimes sends across?”

“Still, don’t assume, Tina. My view is that a guy who really loves you will not be afraid to lose you during the October Rush, and may not rush you during the period either. That person will possibly become your friend, not too obtrusive or interfering, so as not to risk alienation. So, true, the person may ‘fall in love’ with you, but the maturing time for that love definitely will outlive the October Rush.”

“OK, good points there. You still haven’t answered one question, though.”

Eish, Tina, today you really want to grill me, huh? Don’t you know that if I am heard discussing these things with you, I could be tagged ‘carnal’? You know, you are one of the few girls who are able to get me to discuss these deep topics o.”

“Wow that is nice. But perhaps from you I can get unalloyed truth about these questions. I am certain that you do reflect on these topics in your mind a lot more though. So now back to the question: how do you show your love to a girl?”

“Tina!” She could almost swear he was blushing.

“Bazook! Ha-ha, answer the question, brother.”

 

Patty

“Do you have a car?”

“Er, no.”

“Are you staying in one of the hostels on campus, likeBruneiorGazaand how many are you in your room?”

“I am in Katanga. You know, in the old days, final year students had a room each to themselves, but these days, two of us have to share. Hmm, tough days now koraa…”

“How many are you in your room?”

“OK, we are two officially…”

“Total number in your room?”

“…and we have two perchers.”

“Do you have a fridge and a microwave in your room? What is your size of TV – is it plasma or 21 inches?”

“When was the last time you travelled abroad?”

“Which restaurants do you visit frequently inKumasi, I don’t mean on campus?”

 

Forty-five minutes later, Gorang had to come up with an excuse. He left Room 808 dejected. Eish, what frightening heights the Rush game had reached! He was clearly not in the league of Patty, and he didn’t even know if he had enough energy to see Tina. Besides, it was late.

 

As he exited the P-Lodge, providence and fate combined to present Tina to him. She was just about to ascend the stairs to her block.

“Hello, helloooo, Tina!” Gorang called.

“Hi Joe.” The name Inte Gorang hadn’t filtered to her yet.

“I was coming to see you but something came up in the hall, so couldn’t set off early. That is why I am late.”

“Ah, but you just descended from Block B. If you really were coming to see me urgently, wouldn’t you have been descending from Block A, where my room is?”

 

Eish, the first year girls this year are wild o, Gorang thought. A bad night it was turning out for him. A smooth operator, he didn’t miss a beat.

 

“That is what I was coming to. The ‘something’ I spoke about had to do with a project work, actually. So I had to work on it, and submit to my project mate in 504, and she detained me to do some explanation too.”

“Alright, I understand now. So what did you want to discuss with me, Joe? Please make it snappy, as I have had a long day and I’m feeling tired.”

“Well, Tina, you must have realized that with such beauty as has been bestowed on you, any man with a working brain cannot pass you without a second or even a third glimpse. I have been glancing plenty times! These past few weeks, each day that passes reinforces the love I have developed for you, even beyond the outer beauty. Your character, your smile; your intelligent conversations, your style; all these have combined to sweep me off my feet. It has been difficult holding back this expression…”

“Joe, thanks, but this is about the fifth such poetry recital I have heard this week. Besides my beauty, can you give me five proper reasons why I should believe you, and can you wait for another month to see if these reasons still hold?”

 

Gorang had a fitful sleep that night. It had been a bad day.

 

In the end …

It actually turned out that Brother Bazook was interested in Akua, and the discussion with Tina teased him out of his shyness. Tina turned out to be his consultant. When Akua accepted his proposal, Tina later told Akua Bazook came straight afterwards to her room, speaking in his own tongues!

 

Gorang completed his degree, four-zero.

 

Patty “bounced” most of the bidders, settling for a married Kumasibusiness tycoon. When the tycoon’s wife returned to Ghanatwo years later, he dropped Patty, who was in her third year. She got onto the ranks of BOGOF – Buy one, Get one Free.

 

 Tina got hitched to a classmate of hers, in her third year. He had his own stories of chasing women, and getting wounded by some. In the university, he had become wiser and knew that most of the good girls didn’t like being rushed. His name was Alan Quartey.


[1] Local slang for fool

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I was travelling to Cote d’Ivoire on Emirates on a Sunday and the stated time for check in was 9am – 11am for a 1:55pm flight. I usually want to check in early to avoid long queues and also to relax. I planned to leave the house at 9am, but eventually left around 9:15am, as I was waiting for a friend to deliver something to me before my trip. By 10am, we were at the airport, and I asked my wife to stay in the car for a short, with our boys, for me to ascertain whether the check-in counter was open. I had not printed my e-ticket, so wanted to find out if they would check accept the reference code.  Check-in hadn’t commenced.

 

We decided to drive to the Accra Mall, to print at the Busy Internet centre at the Mall. The attendant on duty indicated that they wouldn’t start till after 12noon. “Can you please just do me a favour and print something from my email? I am travelling and need my ticket,” I pleaded. He told us he couldn’t even log into the system till after 12. Time was about 10:20 am. Upon enquiry, we were told that the Busy Internet centre in Nkrumah Circle was open; they started working from 6am, the attendant told us. We drove through 37 (none of the Internet Cafes were open this early on Sunday) and to the Busy Internet centre at Circle. Things went on smoothly and I got the e-ticket printed. We drove back to the Kotoka International Airport, and I said good bye to Vivian and the boys. I got to the departure lounge and quickly got my luggage checked by the Customs.

 

I looked for the Emirates counter, and couldn’t find it. The information on the screen stated the departure time for the flight, without indicating the check –in counter number. I was getting worried as it was after 11am now, the time stated on the ticket for checking-in was over. I saw a guy enquiring from one of the airport officials and drew closer.

 

“Emirates will start checking in from 12 noon,” he said.

 

I stood in the open space by my luggage, not knowing where the check-in would take place. Soon it was 11:45am and my feet were hurting. Some people who were standing by me decided to go sit down, on one extreme end of the departure lounge. I figured that if check-in would start anytime, the time I had stood there would be best appreciated if I held on a bit longer. I was proven right, as a few minutes after 12 noon, the Emirates staff started setting up the counter; I was second in the queue to check in.

 

Rev Richard Kwarteng Siaw of International Charismatic Church once told us that he would never give up on his faith as a Christian. His reason? The path he had covered was longer than the path ahead of him; he said he had fasted too much, prayed too much, contended with too many demons, suffered too much, to let all that investment go waste.

 

I took my Christian faith more seriously around 1989, when I was in Form three in Ghana National College. I became active in the Scripture Union then. Before then, we used the Scripture Union as an avenue to escape the eyes of the seniors. It was tough being an SU member; apart from being held to the highest standards of behaviour by both your tutors and colleague students, sometimes you  have to bear the brunt of jokes from your mates who thought you were colo (old fashioned) and not enjoying the highlife that youth deserved. A few laughed at you to your face. Similar experiences were encountered among friends at home.

 

Fast-track many years and I started finding that many of these friends who used to ridicule us have come to the saving grace of Christ, and some have become pastors. Then came Facebook, and connections with old friends, some I hadn’t met or interacted with in close to 20 years, were possible. Then the pleasant surprises started: status updates about Christ, Christianity, holy living. A lot of those who used to tease us about our faith in secondary school had now come to a saving knowledge of Christ. The question I put to myself was: what if I had listened to them and lost my faith, only to find out later in life that what they push me to reject has become their treasure? It is akin to a girl rejecting the proposal of a young man on the advice of her friend only to discover that that same ‘best friend’ of hers has married the rejected proposer! Don’t laugh: it has happened many times.

 

In my first book, Excursions in My Mind, I wrote about getting an email from an old friend from Ghana National, many years after school, asking me about how to grow up in his Christian faith, as he had decided to take God seriously. The question I asked myself then was: “What if I had given up?”

 

Sometimes, as I found out in my airport check-in experience, it takes just a bit more of holding on, to read our vision, to get to our promised land. The race is not for the swift, but victory belongs to the person who keeps on in the race. My friend Sandy Nartey puts it this way: “The race is not for the swift, but you must be in the race.”

 

Christ’s second coming is now closer than it was yesterday. The distance to your dream is closer than it was before your last step forward. If you would just hold on, and keep going…remember, even the ant reaches its destination, as long as it keeps moving.

 

Action Exercise

 

As we move into the new year (2012), is there a dream you had for 2011 that has not materialised? Don’t give up on it. Are you struggling with your faith and about to call it quits? Remember the journey so far – will you give it all up? The prize could be just within reach. Remain in the race, and plod on.

 

Qoutes

 

Let me tell you the secret that has led me to my goal. My strength lies solely in my tenacity.

Louis Pasteur

 

 If you are going through hell, keep going.

Winston Churchill

 

Success seems to be largely a matter of hanging on after others have let go.

William Feather

 

Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.

Dale Carnegie

 

Never give up on what you really want to do. The person with big dreams is more powerful than one with all the facts.

Anonymous

 

When the world says, ‘Give up,’ Hope whispers, ‘Try it one more time.’

Anonymous

 

Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear.

Ambrose Redmoon

 

A ship in port is safe, but that’s not what ships are built for.

Rear Admiral Grace Murray Hopper

 

When there is no wind … ROW!

Latin Proverb

 

Fall down seven times, get up eight.

Japanese Proverb

 

Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.

Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

 

Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.

Dale Carnegie

 

Never Give Up! Never, never, never, never give up. Never!

Winston Churchill

 

 

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